German proverbs Charity sees the need, not the cause. Speaking comes by nature, silence by understanding. A country can be judged by the quality of its proverbs. To advise is not to compel. No answer is also an answer. Revenge converts a little right into a great wrong. To change and change for the better are two different things. The wise person has long ears and a short tongue. Envy eats nothing, but its own heart.